Should all groomsmen be invited to bachelor party?
My son was recently married and had asked his his sister's new husband of nine months to be IN his wedding but did NOT ask him to the bachelor party. Is this proper? They seemed to get along - you know guys - so why the inappropriate behavior by the groom? It could be he doesn't feel comfortable with a new brother now, so why have him in his wedding? Wouldn't a party be the right format to get to know the new brother-in-law? Should he say something to the new brother about not getting invited? I am certain it is ok for the brides to dole out anything they want but what about this? Thanks.
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Re: [valuableone] Should all groomsmen be invited to bachelor party?
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Firstly -- it is never "OK for bride's to dole out anything they want", or to act inappropriately.
Typically all of the attendants are invited to the bachelor party. Is it possible your son-in-law missed something?
If not, sometimes grooms decide not to include certain family members for fear of embarassment. Your daughter should speak to her brother (Mom - I'd steer clear here) if she thinks this is going to cause a problem between her brother and husband. However, if your son-in-law hasn't mentioned anything and doesn't seem to be bothered with it then let it go. Top Wedding Questions Forum Moderator - "Write your sorrows in the sand, your blessings in stone".
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