My fiance has known for years that I am against strippers. His friends have known, also. Even though he has always respected that, his friends haven't. We agreed we want to do our bachelor/bachelorette parties together and have a night of fun with the wedding party the weekend before the wedding. When his friends found out they couldn't take him to a strip club they became resentful and are upset with me. How should I react to this?
There really isn't anything you need to do or should do. This is something your fiance would have to respond to. It is also his decision if he would rather have his own bachelor party (if one is offered) or to share one party. So, perhaps this is also an issue. If he agreed to share the party just because of you, they may know this and are reacting to it.