Hello, my bridesmaids are planning my bachelorette party, which I really appreciate since I know that this is an optional event. They asked for my input on dates, and I said that I was completely flexible/open, with the exception of the weekend before the wedding. I mentioned that this would be a stressful weekend - dealing with the last minute details, and I would want to be able to relax and enjoy our time together.
They said that this would not be a problem, and set the date for 2 weekends before the wedding - perfect! Now, one of the bridesmaids has planned a last minute trip during this time, and asked the others to reschedule to the weekend before the wedding so that she could attend. They let me know that the date has been changed.
I realize I should not be involved in the what, when, and where of the party, but I feel a little uncomfortable about the date. Should I mention this, or appreciate their planning a party at all and go along with it?
Etiquette Now
WEDDING ETIQUETTE EXPERT
Jan 8, 2007, 7:44 PM
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Re: [wife_to_be] Bachelorette Party Date
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Dear Wife to Be,
This is a personal choice, but you did mention this before and I see nothing wrong in mentioning it again. Perhaps it can be changed back to the original date.
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