Can MOG be sad if bride didn't invite her to party?
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Re: [valuableone] Can MOG be sad if bride didn't invite her to party?
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Dear Burned in Indiana,
Jeez, there is a lot of anger here. It may be best to breathe.
You can feel any way you wish to feel. So, if you want to feel angry and left out, you may. No one can tell you what you may or may not feel.
However, the mothers typically are not invited to the bachelorette party. Those closest to the bride and invited to the wedding can be invited. So, perhaps she is very close to her mother, aunt, and sister. Perhaps she wants this last party to be a bonding experience with her close female family members. Why shouldn't she have this time? And, she may not be as close to you yet.
Plus, if you were invited and there are problems between you and her mother, even though these problems are not your doing, it would change the feel of the event.
So, you can continue to feel left out and angry. That is your choice. But, you probably wouldn't have been on the guest list anyway. It isn't typically done.
Can MOG be sad if bride didn't invite her to party?
