a friend of mine is getting married in March. However she chose her sister to be moh, her sister is 14. Since she cannot do any of the duties they have been passed to me. However the costs are becoming to much for me to bear as I am a single mom. I am wondering for the bachelorette party do I have to pay for the hotel room for all of the girls to stay in, or would it be tacky to ask for help? And the groom has asked for a several hundred dollar wedding present (paying to tile the floor in their house). I am not sure what to do as I have already had to buy a 200 dollar dress, and many other things. Please help