I'm in my nieces wedding the end of this month. We are doing a Bachelorette party for her this weekend. I just found out that I'm expected to pay 1/5th of the cost of food for the 20 people the MOH has invited. It's being held at a club, finger foods are being served, soda, and cash bar, will end up costing at least $300 or more. With all the other expenses... ie: the dress, shoes, fitting charge, SHOWER, etc.. tacking on another party is a bit much! I want to go and celebrate her last days of being single, but I really have had it as far as paying out for others.... Am I being cheap? Is this the normal thing that is being done at these Bachelorette parties? Any help is appreciated, Old fashion...
Etiquette Now
WEDDING ETIQUETTE EXPERT
Jun 11, 2006, 4:35 PM
Post #2 of 2
(1358 views)
Re: [Pjpampered] What should the Bridesmaid be expected to pay?
[In reply to]
Dear Had It,
No, this is not how it is done. This is the one time that guests pay for themselves. Most people realize this when they accept an invitation to a bachelorette party. Everyone pays except for the bride.
Plus, this is an optional party. Everyone who agrees to attend must agree to the planning and the costs involved. If the MOH wishes to host this, then she is responsible for the costs. She cannot expect others to hand over cash when they having agreed to the planning or expenses.
What should the Bridesmaid be expected to pay?
