Re: [maplestx] Help! Maid of Honor Question
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Dear Help!
First of all, breathe and relax. And, ask yourself if you really want to be her Maid Of Honor. You say that you are a graduate student with a graduation and your own wedding coming up soon. This is an expensive and exhausting time for you and being a MOH in another's wedding will tax you monetarily and will be time consuming.
If you decide that you want to be in her wedding, there is no law that states that you have to include her in your wedding. If you feel that you may hurt her feelings or harm your relationship, then it is your choice if you wish to have two MOH. It is your choice.
Re: [maplestx] Help! Maid of Honor Question
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You do not need to ask her to be your MOH. Just because she asked you doesn't necessarily mean that you have to ask her. If you want to have two MOH, you may. That is a good choice.
When the time comes you would address it in the same way you addressed us, with compassion, caring, and honesty.
Please do not worry about this now. You have a lot to deal with for your graduate studies. Rebecca Black, Etiquette Now
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