My best friend of 10 years is getting married a month before I am. I am very excited for her, she has had a hard life. I found out today, through looking over her "Save the Date" e-mail. That I am not asked to be one of her bridesmaids. The three women she's asked is a friend who she has known for a long time, a friend who she stopped being friends with up until 6 months ago, and a girl she met through work. I am very upset, she did not ask me. I know it sounds childish and bitter. I was the only friend who, when her mother passed away, stayed with her the entire night. I have been the only friend who has been there throughout all of her break-ups. I would like to bring this up to her, to see if maybe I've done something wrong, I don't think its right nor do I think I should. She is my best friend, I am VERY crushed. What do I do?
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Re: [ChristinReid] Best Friend Wedding.
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I'll bet she didn't ask you because she figured you'd be busy planning your own wedding. If she's your best friend, talk to her about your feelings. Don't pressure her or cause her to feel guilty but just let her know how you feel. Top Wedding Questions Forum Moderator - "Write your sorrows in the sand, your blessings in stone".
Best Friend Wasn't Asked to be a Bridesmaid
