OK here's the deal. I (and two of my other cousins) became very close to my cousin's wife. We would take trips together and have nights out and do all things girlfriends do. About three or so years ago they got a divorce. We all were still friends after... it was no one's fault why they split. My aunt still even emails her from time to time and asks us how she is doing. My uncle on the other hand is different and so is my cousin's sister.I would like to have my "ex" cousin-n-law in my wedding party. My other bridesmaids say that I should have her there if I want her there. What do y'all think? And and something to note my cousin just recently got remarried so he's moved on with his life.