I was in her wedding, does she have to be in mine?
My (soon to be) mother-in-law and her best friend were in each other's weddings. My fiancé and I were in the best friend's daughter's wedding. Now my fiancé has chosen the daughter's husband to be a groomsman. But because I really can't stand the daughter (and we are only having two people stand up for us) I have not asked her to be in my wedding. My fiancé has said nothing about wanting her in the wedding either. She has made comments to her mother and my MIL that I should ask her before she gets offended. I was in her wedding; does she have to be in mine?
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Re: [yikesstripes] I was in her wedding, does she have to be in mine?
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No, you are never obligated to return the favor. Maybe your fiance's mom could speak to her friend (or your fiance could speak to his groomsman) to let her know that your wedding will be small and informal and that your bridal party will consist of one one bridesmaid so her daughter will not expect to be asked. Top Wedding Questions Forum Moderator - "Write your sorrows in the sand, your blessings in stone".
I was in her wedding, does she have to be in mine?
