I actually have two dilemmas...This past weekend I went out of town w/ some of my bridal party and a few friends for my bachelorette party. During the entire trip my MOH, who is also my cousin and best friend, complained the whole time. It was all about money and how we were splitting up gas costs (which by the way she demanded she be one of the drivers). I have asked her repeatedly to order her dress, and she keeps telling me that she will do it. I know that she does not have a lot of money, but she has known for 8-9 months that she is my MOH, she could have been saving for it the whole time. I don't know how to confront her without her getting upset with me. It has gotten to the point that I almost don't even want her in the wedding anymore...Also during my trip one of my other bridesmaids threatened one of my good friends. I have only known the BM for about 1 1/2 years and I am starting to think that I do not know her as well as I thought. She has also not ordered her dress because of money issues. I am not sure I want her in the wedding anymore either...Please help!!!
MOH and BM stress
