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One of my bridesmaids cant be bothered.

 

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Feb 13, 2008, 7:17 AM

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     One of my bridesmaids cant be bothered.  

I worked with this girl for a couple of years (we hung out a few times) last July she called me up and said she was getting married and asked if i wanted to be her MOH. I said yes knowing that she has few friends. The next week i got engaged and called her up to tell her. she assumed right away that she was in my wedding party. I didn't know what to say. so its now today and i have picked the rest of my wedding party and i want my sister in law, whom i'm closer to, in my party. But my numbers will be off. It would'nt be such a problem but i'm starting to not like this BM (she is a bridezilla) She has not come to any of MY bridal functions and anytime we get together (once every couple of months) all she can talk about is her wedding. My Future sister - inlaw has done 100 time more for me then she has. Please help. Oh and the latest from the BM that does not care is she she wants to get pregnant right away after her wedding which happens to be nine months before mine.

Please help, should i ask her to step down?


(This post was edited by TWQadmin on Feb 13, 2008, 9:39 AM)



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Feb 13, 2008, 9:49 AM

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     Re: [feb07/09] One of my bridesmaids cant be bothered. [In reply to]  

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