My MOH/best friend/twin sister, just got married in February. I have asked her new husband to be an usher in my wedding. I tried really hard to find some low cost dresses ($130) and some low cost tuxes. She thinks that I should have the men wear suits to cut down on the cost. She keeps on making comments about how much money I am costing her and her husband. I know that they do not have a lot of money, but should I change my wedding just because she wants me too? I have talked to my other usher and he says that it would cost him more money to get a suit then a tux.
I have told her all of these things, but she still thinks my wedding cost to much money. Should I change something?
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Would it be possible for you to pay the difference between what your sister can pay and the actual cost of the dress and tux?
This could save you a lot of grief, a friendship and you can have the wedding you want. Top Wedding Questions Forum Moderator - "Write your sorrows in the sand, your blessings in stone".
Should I change something?
She keeps on making comments about how much money I am costing her and her husband. I know that they do not have a lot of money, but should I change my wedding just because she wants me too? I have talked to my other usher and he says that it would cost him more money to get a suit then a tux. 
