I really need some help with every aspect of my bridal party. For the most part the groomsmen and best man have given me no big issues to deal with, but everyone else is causing me to want to pull my hair out. I will start with my bridesmaid issues. I have four girls altogether, 2 being my sisters, 1 my fiance's sister, and one being a friend of mine. I really wanted one of my sisters to be the MOH, but the problem is neither of them is very dependable. One of my sisters lives about 8 hours away and i have been hounding her for 3 months now to go and get her dress.She always has an excuse and I don't know how I can get her to go and do it. Also my other sister is preganant and has known since she was 2 months along. She went to get her dress fitted and everything, but didn't tell me she was pregnant till 3 weeks ago. Her due date is about a week after the wedding, and she is supposed to be my MOH!!! Would it be okay to demote her to a bridesmaid. I was thinking about making my fiance's sister, who I really like, the MOH. She is very helpful and is the only one who has offered to plan my bridal shower. Would this be okay to have her instead of my sisters???
Also I have a nephew who at the time of my wedding will be 3 and a half years old. His mother (my pregnant sister) really wants him to be a ringbearer. I feel he is probably too young and has already said he doesn't want to walk down the aisle. Therefore, I already asked my fiance's sister 6 year old nephew to do it. He has already been fitted and everything. I don't know whether to tell her to just forget about having him in it because he is too young, or to tell her togo ahead and he can be a second ringbearer. That way if he didn't go through with it it probably would go unnoticed since the other boy would walk down.. Though he would have to be listed in the program....I just don't know what to do. HELP!!!
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Re: [michellebelle] The bridal party from heck!
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The bridal party from heck!
