I have 2 older married sisters. I'm not sure that I want to pick one of them to be the maid/matron of honor. I also have a best friend. I was her maid of honor in her second wedding. I was her bridesmaid in her first. In my one sisters wedding, I was too young to be maid of honor so I was the flower girl. In my other sister's wedding, she didn't have to choose between sisters. I was not married so I was the maid of honor and our older sister was the matron of honor. I don't know who to choose. I'm getting alot of advice. My mom thinks I should choose my sister that's 3 years older than me for no apparent reason. I would have chosen her. But last year, she caused a family feud with me over $100. I was the one who made the first move to reconcile with both sisters. They are really close. My best friend has always been there for me. My sister-in-law even has. Help!!! Who do I choose????[email]
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Re: [PamGoss] Who to pick for Maid of Honor/Matren of Honor
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You have thought about choosing all or some of them already. None is also an option. All of your choices are potential opportunities for someone to get upset.
Are you going to be wanting a shower/bachelorette party/etc.? Is there one of the candidates who would be more likely to take the lead in doing the traditional MOH duties? That might help you select one, if that's what you want to do.
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Re: [PamGoss] Who to pick for Maid of Honor/Matren of Honor
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Dear Who to Pick,
One choice could be to choose both sisters as honor attendants, or you could choose your best friend. If you chose your sister in law, you could (perhaps) hurt your sisters' feelings. Choosing a friend is neutral.
Congratulations on your up-coming wedding.
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Who to pick for Maid of Honor/Matren of Honor
