My half sister is getting married in June and one of her bridesmaid backed out with only 2 weeks notice. So now she has asked me to be her bridesmaid w/ less than 2 weeks for her to mail the dress to me to get altered, etc. My husband and 2 small children have only met my family 2 or so times. And I think that he is going to feel awkward along with me at the reception when I am sitting at the brides table and having a dance during the bridal party song. What should I do to keep things as less awkward as possible. I don't want my husband to feel out of place or like he is there alone. HELP! And what cost am I expected to pay being a last minute, out of town bridesmaid.
I do know that we are getting a manicure and pedicure and also getting our hair done. Who pays? And am I expected to pay for the dress and shoes?
Actually, you should ask these questions of your half-sister. Sometimes she would be paying, especially if everyone has to get the spa treatment. Usually the bridesmaids pay for the dress and shoes, but if she is mailing them to you they may already be paid for. You would be paying for the tailoring.
You would be paying for your travel expenses. Many times the bride will find someplace for the out of town bridesmaid to stay. But, you have your entire family and your half-sister hasn't mentioned lodging yet. So, it is on your shoulders.
You will have some time to be with your husband, but not much. He most likely will be at a table with others in his shoes. So, hopefully he will make some new friends.
You don't have to do this if you don't want to. The bride does not have to have an even amount of bridesmaids to groomsmen, if that is her worry.
This will cost you. Talk to your half sister and find out exactly what are all of your costs.
bridesmaid w/less than 2 wks notice
