My fiance and I are getting married in September. His son is 7 going to be 8 shortly after the wedding and we have asked him to be the ring bearer (a little old I know but we felt it was the most appropriate role for him). He also has a daughter who is not his biological daughter but he raised her like his own for the first 11 to 12 years of her life, she is 15 going to be 16 a few months after the wedding. My fiance and his daughter have not been talking since almost October for a number of reasons but are slowly starting to talk again. He has not asked her to be in the wedding yet but I'm hoping that they will continue mending their relationship in time for the wedding. I have left the decision to ask her to be in the wedding completely up to him. If he does ask her to be in the wedding I was thinking of having her be a Jr. Bridesmaid. Is she too old for that role? She will be 10 years younger than any of the other bridesmaids and even more of an age difference from the groomsmen. Also we already have a fairly large wedding party and don't plan on adding any more male attendants. We have asked my fiance's niece to be our flower girl (she is 7). What is the most appropriate role for my fiance's 15 year old daughter and where is most appropriate for her to stand during the ceremony especially if she does not have a male escort within the bridal party?