I asked my brother to be my best man and his sons (20 and 15) to be ushers. I have a rather large group of friends who I'd like to involve in the wedding. One of my best friends will be the officiant. The ceremony will be non-religious and short. Is it appropriate to ask my friends to say a few words at the rehearsal dinner or reception? Are there other ways to involve my friends?
Have you discussed this with your fiance? There are a number of ways to involve special friends that are not in the bridal party. Many times you can use them as readers, gift attendants, escort the mothers, greeters. The reason I asked if you have discussed this with your fiance is to make sure she has not already filled those positions. And of course, giving a toast at your rehearsal dinner would be wonderful. Nancy Tucker President of Weddings Beautiful US http://www.weddingsbeautiful.com
It is not only appropriate to have friends and family say a few words at the reception or rehearsal dinner, it provides your event with personal moments that warm everyone's hearts....and often makes them laugh too. Other ways to include friends: A friend or two can do readings during the wedding ceremony, a friend can sign the marriage certificate (though often this is done by the best man and maid of honor, sometimes it is done by others you wish to honor and include), they can give out programs or rose petals. You can give them each a token, a thank you gift, for being your friend and part of your life.
It is a wonderful thing to include friends. Afterall, you have invited them because their life and the light of their spirit has touched your life and spirit.
Your bride-to-be may also have friends she wishes to include, so you do need to coordinate with her.
Involving friends
