I think that bridemaids/groomsmen are the one thing personal to each the bride and the groom. Is it fair for me to ask that my fiance make my brother a groomsman? It means the world to me that my brother is involved. I'm sure my fiance will do it if I ask, but I think his selections should be about who he wants at his side during the ceremony. Is there another way to involve my brother, besides putting him to work? Or should I just ask?
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Dec 12, 2004, 9:29 PM
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Re: [june24] Another Brother Question
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The selection of the groomsmen and bridesmaids can be the couples choice together. Have a discussion with your groom and tell him your feelings. Perhpas, he too, has a female friend or siste he wants to include as a bridesmaid. The key here is to choose together.
There are other ways your brother could be involved such as with readings and as a part of a familt unity candle ceremony. Top Wedding Questions Forum Moderator - "Write your sorrows in the sand, your blessings in stone".
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