Bride wants to kick a groomsman out of the wedding
I recently caught one of one of my groomsmen shoplifting from the store that I work in. He admitted that he did to tick me off because he and my fiance had about me a few days before. I have never got along with this friend and want to ask my fiance to kick him out of the wedding. No tuxes have been rented yet so he wouldn't be out any money. Is it wrong to ask my fiance to do this?
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This is something to be discussed with your groom since this "friend" was obviously code enough to him that he invited him to be a groomsmen. The two of you should talk about what;s happening here.
But, if you decide together that you've made a mistake, and that you don't care to continue the relationship, your fiance should speak to his friend and explain, man to man.
You shouldn't have to put up with illegal behavior from a friend. Top Wedding Questions Forum Moderator - "Write your sorrows in the sand, your blessings in stone".
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Absolutely. Hopefully, you didn't keep this from your employer. Stealing is serious and not a joke. Rebecca Black, Etiquette Now
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Thanks for the advice. My fiance and I worked it out and agreed that if this friend is this disrespectful, we don't want him in our wedding. My boss is also well aware of what happened. That is part of made this even more awkward as she will be attending our wedding.