We're ready to launch our website but won't do it until we have our Bridal Party set. The issue were having is this...
On her side we have 5 total: Maid of Honor, My sister, 3 friends
On my side, I've got 7 total: Best man, Her brother, 5 friends
She's having an issue with the uneven numbers as well as now a total of 12 people + Us for pictures being to many. My issue is that i'm having a hard time cutting 2 close friends to make an even number. I feel if I want to honor my 5 closest friends at my wedding, what stopping me? We haven't spoken about to each other in almost 4 days because this is an issue we can't seem to get past.
What if any, are other good solutions to handling this?
Relax and assure her that uneven numbers is very common in today's wedding trends. I know she is concerned about the high numbers as well and that is something that the two of you can come to an agreement on. After all, what really matters is the wedding day is the beginning of your marriage and every marriage is based on communication and compromise. Nancy Tucker President of Weddings Beautiful US http://www.weddingsbeautiful.com
Also remember that the number of attendants you choose is based on the formality of the wedding. The more formal, the more attendants... Top Wedding Questions Forum Moderator - "Write your sorrows in the sand, your blessings in stone".