My husband chose his brother to be the best man in our wedding 5 years ago. Now this brother is getting married and my husband has not been asked to be in his wedding at all. I think this is so rude. There has never been any kind of explanation or anything we are just hearing tid bits about the wedding here and there from those that are in it. My husband could care less (that's what he says) but I can't help feeling offended for him. My husband and his brother get along great and there has never been an arguement or disagreement between them and financial burden is not an issue either.
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Feb 1, 2007, 11:57 AM
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Re: [annoyed27] not in best mans wedding
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Dear Annoyed,
This is common and nothing to be upset about. There is no reciprocity rule concerning attendants. Your brother in law choose the people he felt he wanted to stand with him. It has no reflection on his relationship with his brother.
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