My niece is getting married and has invited only family because it is outside under a gazebo and it doesn't accomodate very many. Someone is holding a small bridal shower/party for her so she can share her happiness with all her close friends. Should you say no gifts or should individuals be allowed to bring gifts if they desire?
Only those invited to the wedding can or should be invited to a shower. So, if all of these people are wedding guests you can send bridal shower invitations stating that it is a giftless shower, if that is the sort of event you want to host. Top Wedding Questions Forum Moderator - "Write your sorrows in the sand, your blessings in stone".
So even if you are unable to invite friends to a wedding because it is "Family Only" then it is not proper for her frends to hold a shower/party so they can get together?
Right. Imagine how you would feel if you were invited to a gift giving party to honor the bride but knew you were not invited to the wedding. Many would feel insulted - hence the rule.
Her friends could certainly host a luncheon or something of that nature after the wedding though. Top Wedding Questions Forum Moderator - "Write your sorrows in the sand, your blessings in stone".
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