My nephew is getting married in September. My adult daughters (22 & 27) are not invited to the wedding - they haven't be included in any family function for the last 6 years (due to my interfering mother). Anyway, I have received a bridal shower invitation. I don't see either my nephew or his fiance from one year to another. I am unable to attend this shower as my youngest daughter requires my assistance in moving on the day of the shower.
I have called & declined the invitation.
My question is: am I obligated to send a gift? The invitation identified the bridal registry's and also said "Monetary Gifts are appreciated" ..
You're not obligated to attend since only those close to the bride and groom should be invited to a shower. You;re not obligated to send a gift unless you'd like to.
The part about money gifts is improper and rather tacky since the whole premise of the shower is the opening of gifts.
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