Co-Worker Hosting Office Shower at Her House. Do I have to invite her to the wedding?
My wedding is a little over a month away. Recently, a co-worker who I am not close with offered to throw me an office shower. I initially said no thank you, but I gave in because she insisted and I didn't want to make her feel bad. I told her that since our guest list was set, I would not be able to invite everyone to the wedding. She said that was fine and not to worry about it. But she wants to have the shower at her house and not the office. Am I obligated to invite her to the wedding? I hesitate because if I invite her, that will open up a whole other list of people that I may have to consider inviting. But I want to do the right thing. Help!
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Re: [jane13] Co-Worker Hosting Office Shower at Her House. Do I have to invite her to the wedding?
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Tell her that you have read that is is not proper to host a workplace shower any place other than at the office. Explain that this will put both of you in an awkward situation. Thank her for her good intentions and hope that she changes the shower back to the office where it belongs. Top Wedding Questions Forum Moderator - "Write your sorrows in the sand, your blessings in stone".
Co-Worker Hosting Office Shower at Her House. Do I have to invite her to the wedding?
