Do I have to invite exhusband and new wife to bridal shower
My daughter is getting married in October. My younger daughter is the maid of honor. I will be helping her host the bridal shower. This will be a couples party that takes place in the home of my second husband and I. I divorced my first husband because he was abusive. I want to try and do what is best for my daughter, but am very uncomfortable being around my ex and his new wife. My husband does not want my ex in our home because of the past abuse. Is there anyway I can get away with not asking them to the party?
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Re: [tornandconfused] Do I have to invite exhusband and new wife to bridal shower
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Dear Torn,
Actually, you shouldn't be involved with the shower. Mothers don't host, and with this held in your home, it appears as if you are. The traditional gift giving shower must be planned well so it doesn't appear to be a gift fest. When moms become involved they often tend to try to garner the most gifts possible for their child--it is only human nature. It is best not to host this shower.
But, if you continue with your plans, you don't have to invite your ex and his wife. It is best to leave abusive people out of our lives as much as possible.
Do I have to invite exhusband and new wife to bridal shower
