I know that family is not supposed to host the shower. MOG knows we don't have a lot of money, but decided that she is throwing a shower without even consulting anyone. I want a shower, but it's awkward. My mom would want to have some input in the guest list and now it's like she's interfering and inviting herself if she were to call the MOG and find out what's up. The MOB is short on money because she's in the middle of buying a house. Also, my MOH should be in on it at the very least. Help please! How do I explain this without offending her generous yet inappropriate offer?
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This is one of the reasons mothers shouldn't be involved with the shower. Bridal showers are optional events. If your maid of honor or any other friend offers to host that is very generous of her.
You'll probably need to have a calm discussion with your groom's mom. Let her know that, while you appreciate her very generous offer, you read that it is improper for mothers to host and you're sure she wouldn't want to be improper. if you're not comfortable with this discussion ask your groom to speak to his mom. If your maid of honor offers to host a shower then you can let your future mother-in-law know that a party is already being planned (thanking her, etc.). You could also say that you just don't want a shower. Not all brides want, or need, one.
Good Luck. Top Wedding Questions Forum Moderator - "Write your sorrows in the sand, your blessings in stone".
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Very well said. I couldn't have given better advice. Rebecca Black, Etiquette Now
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