Registering for wedding gifts when not having a bridal shower
I have a question regarding bridal shower etiquette. Everywhere I have looked says the same thing - "Don’t invite anyone to a shower who won’t be invited to the wedding."
My sister is having a small intimate destination wedding. It will be for immediate family only. They will not be having a reception when they return. I know that our extended family would love to celebrate and some will ask if they are registered. While I do not think a regular bridal shower would be appropriate, do have any ideas about how we could handle this? Would you suggest the bride and groom register and not have a shower. This way, family members and friends who do want to buy a gift can do so and those that do not, will not feel obligated. Thank you for your help.
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edited by TWQadmin on Aug 11, 2008, 11:54 AM)
Of course they may register, because some may want to give the couple a wedding gift even if not invited to the wedding. But, this information is never mentioned unless people ask.