My sister-in-law asked me to be her MOH for her wedding. I was very honored to do it for her even though we haven't really been close. She lives several states away (half the country actually). My husband, her brother, is deployed and won't be able to make it to the wedding.
Should I host a bridal shower for her or ask one of the other bridesmaids to host one? I'm not sure how far I should have to go to fufill my duty as moh.
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A bridal shower is an optional event. It's not your "duty" or obligation to host a shower. Your sister-in-law shouldn't be expecting you throw her a shower, especially since you're so far away.
However, you could try to get email addresses for the other bridesmaids to see if they are planning anything. Let them know that you're obviously not able to attend, but if they are planning a shower perhaps you'd like to chip in for the gift (which should not be too expensive).
See what else you could do remotely to help the bride. Try to stay in touch frequently, offering as much moral support as possible. Top Wedding Questions Forum Moderator - "Write your sorrows in the sand, your blessings in stone".
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I agree. An, don't feel guilty if you decide not to attempt to host or contribute to one. Rebecca Black, Etiquette Now
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