Who plans for the bridal shower and pays for the bridal shower
My son will be the ring bearer for a family member's wedding.
Recently I was contacted by the "MOG" to "discuss planning the bridal shower". I'm a little unsure as to why I was contacted since my understanding is the "MOH" and bridesmaids plan and pay for the shower. What can I do or say tactfully now to avoid having to share in the expense of the shower?
Thank you
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Jul 13, 2005, 10:12 AM
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Re: [Swingline] Who plans for the bridal shower and pays for the bridal shower
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Dear Who Plans,
Actually, you could inform her that mothers and close family members do not plan or host the shower. It is viewed negatively. Perhaps you could help her realize that it could embarrass the bride and others if you two host.
The bridesmaids or a close friend should host if there is to be one. A bridal shower is an optional event. So if none of them want to host there should be no bridal shower.
We always have to be very careful about these gift giving events to make sure that they appear tactful and not greedy as if we are just trying to get yet another gift from our guests.
Who plans for the bridal shower and pays for the bridal shower
