My friend and her fiance have decided to have a private ceremony with just family and myself. I (in a way) feel I am invited to this event because before the plans were set, I was asked by my friend to be in the wedding.
Meanwhile, her future MIL is hosting a shower for her and now her mother is doing the same... and states openly that this a chance to give the couple gifts.
How should I, as a person also planning a wedding (according, as best I can, to etiquette), handle this situation? I feel someone should know how against etiquette this is... and it's quite frustrating for me! I have sent my friend this website, but I guess it hasn't helped much or she lost the link.
Thank you, in advance, for any advice or comments.
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edited by TWQadmin on Apr 24, 2008, 12:52 PM)
Wow! That is one for the books, huh. It is unfortunate, but perhaps you could tell your friend how this could be perceived. In any case, you are not obligated to attend. It wouldn't reflect badly on you one bit.
Thank you for following what is considered socially acceptable.
friend's multiple showers
