I have planned a destination wedding and my fiance and I are paid for the hotel and airfare for our bridal party. My bridal shower is coming very soon and I was unaware about giving the women in our bridal party a gift the day of the shower. Do I have to give them a gift since we paid for their travel expenses and purchased them gifts for the day of the wedding?
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Re: gifts to the bridal party the day of the shower
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Dear Dcmk,
You are very generous to pay for your bridal party's travel expenses, as you are only obligated to pay for their lodging for 2 nights. However, you are obligated to give some sort of "hostess" gift to those hosting your shower. This doesn't have to be an expensive gift. Flowers, candy, or something similar is fine.