My husband's cousin's daughter is getting married. We are not close to this family at all. They live about an hour and a half away. We have been invited to the wedding but are not able to attend. I have also been invited to a shower. I will not be attending the shower either. My question is should I send a gift for the shower? I am planning on sending something for the wedding.
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Jul 15, 2005, 3:57 PM
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Re: [ande] sending bridal shower gift if not attending
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Dear Gifting,
The traditional thinking is yes, you should. However, I do not believe that an invitation obligates anyone to give a gift. So, it is your choice.