I am getting married next year but my fiance and I have decided to forego a wedding. Because we are already living together and are in our early thirties we believe our money could be better invested.
My sister recently had a wedding and a shower. She has asked me if I want to have a shower and seems to think I should. I don't know how I feel about it. It feels a little too close to gift grabbing to me.
Is it appropriate to have a shower if you are not having a wedding?
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Dec 21, 2004, 9:46 AM
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Re: [mjohnson] shower but no wedding?
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Dear Shower,
You have good instincts. No it is not appropriate. Only those invited to a wedding should be invited to the shower.
shower but no wedding?
