Do you have to have an "at home" reception after Destination wedding?
My fiance and I have both been married before (I did the big traditional wedding, he did not), we're older and our family is scattered around the States. Plus, my parents are divorced and while they are civil to one another, it still feels uncomfortable.
Because of the above, we have decided to run away and get married on the beach! We're not planning on asking anyone to attend because of the cost factor. But, are we required to host a recption when we return? On one hand I'd like to to celebrate what everyone missed but on the other, I'm back to the same problems I listed above with travel time and expenses. Also, we do not want to encourage gifts.
Another thought was for us to gradually make our way around the country visiting our family and sharing pictures and memories. If we did that is it ok to just throw a party for local friends (like at our home?)
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You're not obligated to host a reception unless you're inviting guests to the wedding.
If you decide to host a reception later, doing so within one year is appropriate and not that gifts are not expected for a reception, only for a wedding.
If you can afford to go around visiting all of your family members, that sounds like a nice idea. Again, you can host any sort of party you like after returning.
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I completely agree. And, please don't feel as if you have to visit with family just to be able to host a party to share with friends. You can invite anyone you wish. Rebecca Black, Etiquette Now
Do you have to have an "at home" reception after Destination wedding?
