Formal reply cards necessary in destination wedding?

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Formal reply cards necessary in destination wedding?

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mauiwedding

May 18, 2007, 8:51 AM

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Formal reply cards necessary in destination wedding?

We are sending out 100 invitations (per my mom) for our Hawaii wedding. After sending out save the date cards and directing people to our wedding web site, we know 80% are definitely not coming. Do I really need to have a mail in response card? Can I list a phone number for RSVP?

Or could I say, "If attending, call ......."

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May 18, 2007, 12:04 PM

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Re: [mauiwedding] Formal reply cards necessary in destination wedding? [In reply to]

Dear Mauiwedding,

If this is informal, you could do this. It isn't a problem.

Best wishes,
Rebecca Black, Etiquette Now