No bridesmaids for destination wedding, is this rude?
OK so we are having a small destination wedding in Florida. It is my first marriage so my family is very eager to attend. Its my fiance's second and none of his family are coming. So there will only be about 7 people in attendance. My parents, my brother, 3 of my 4 sisters and my nephew. Since its going to be so small, I didnt think it would really be necessary to have bridesmaids, so I just asked one of my sisters to be my maid of honor since you have to have that. My other sisters do not seem upset about it but I was just wondering if it is rude to not have my other 2 sisters be "part" of the wedding. Is it rude or is it OK under the circumstances? Im just very curious to know if I thought this out right or not.
THANKS!
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Sep 2, 2007, 8:51 AM
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Re: [katiegoo] No bridesmaids for destination wedding, is this rude?
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When hosting a small informal wedding there are typically only two attendants. You don't have to have attendants at all, only two witnesses. So, if you're feeling uncomfortable about not asking the other ladies to have a role, explain your choice and I'm sure they'll be fine with it. The decision makes sense. Remind them how much fun you'll have at the destination!
I'm sorry that your fiance's family will not be in attendance. Second weddings need support too. Maybe they will change their mind if the groom lets them know it is important to him to have them in attendance.
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Sep 4, 2007, 5:25 PM
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Re: [katiegoo] No bridesmaids for destination wedding, is this rude?
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I completely agree. Your planning is fine and not rude at all. Rebecca Black, Etiquette Now
No bridesmaids for destination wedding, is this rude?
