Option for pre-wedding gathering for guests not invited to destination wedding
I've read a lot about he fact that it is not proper to invite folks to a shower who are not attending the destination wedding. We are having a destination wedding (immed. family only) and then having a reception at a later date.
But I have a close friend who wants to throw me a shower. I don't think she is aware of this not being proper etiquette though and I can talk to her about this. However, I have a strong feeling she will still want to do something for me. I noticed in other postings, you mentioned it would be okay to have a tea instead.
Do you have any other recommendations for an event other than a tea? She wants to host the event at her house.
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Re: Option for pre-wedding gathering for guests not invited to destination wedding
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Dear Aquamarine,
Even with the tea, it shouldn't be a prewedding party. There should be no focus on your wedding or you as honored guest. Basically, it is insulting to guests of these events. It is as if saying, "Honor me because I'm marrying and you are not important enough to invite to the wedding."
If it is any other type of party, it is fine--one that doesn't focus on the wedding or you as honored guest.
Option for pre-wedding gathering for guests not invited to destination wedding
