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willowickmom


Jul 24, 2007, 1:31 PM

Post #1 of 4 (1529 views)
     Post Destination Wedding Reception  

Hi. My husband and I were married on a cruise in 3/07. We are planning a reception for Sept 07. I did not see anything stating this was too far off. Please confirm.

I plan to send the invitations 6 wks ahead. Looks like this is appropriate. Please confirm.

We are having a sit down dinner, open bar, but want it to be informal and we are hosting. What is the proper wording? I found this but we arent getting married so I wasnt sure how to word it.

An invitation issued by the couple to the wedding and reception:

The honour of your presence is requested
at the marriage of
Cheryl Rae Walker
to
Mr. Timothy Earle Jones
Saturday, the fourth of March
at five o’clock
Veteran’s Memorial Center
Davis
And afterward at the reception

RSVP

For less formal weddings, the phrase: “is requested at the marriage of” could be changed to “invite you to the wedding of.” It may begin with “Please join us to



Etiquette Now
WEDDING ETIQUETTE EXPERT


Jul 24, 2007, 3:29 PM

Post #2 of 4 (1511 views)
     Re: [willowickmom] Post Destination Wedding Reception [In reply to]  

Dear Willowickmom,

That is an example of a wedding/reception invitation and isn't appropriate. You would be sending a wedding reception invitation:

The pleasure of your company

is requested at the

wedding reception of

Mr. and Mrs. Jane and John Jones

Friday, the fourth of May
at three o'clock

Location



Best wishes,
Rebecca Black, Etiquette Now

willowickmom


Jul 26, 2007, 7:45 AM

Post #3 of 4 (1478 views)
     Re: [Et.byRebecca] Post Destination Wedding Reception [In reply to]  

Hi.I just want to confirm

Mr. and Mrs. Jane and John Jones

My name goes FIRST immediately after MRS??

and it wouldnt be

Mr and Mrs. John and Jane Jones

When addressing my invitations is that also the case

Mr and Mrs Jane and John Doe OR

Mr. and Mrs. John Doe

Thank you!!!!

Etiquette Now
WEDDING ETIQUETTE EXPERT


Jul 26, 2007, 10:01 AM

Post #4 of 4 (1471 views)
     Re: [willowickmom] Post Destination Wedding Reception [In reply to]  

There is an obscure, old rule that a man is never separated from his name. Many still follow it. So, your name would be listed first so his name is intact. But, if you don't wish to use your name and this is a very formal event, then you would use the old fashioned and traditional, Mr. and Mrs. John Doe.
Rebecca Black, Etiquette Now



 
 


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