i want to have a very casual reception, with just family and friends. plain and inexpensive. i wanted to write on the invitations "instead of a gift please bring a covered dish, when you RSVP please let us know what you would like to bring" is this an acceptable way to word this and a acceptable request of my guests?
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WEDDING ETIQUETTE EXPERT
Jun 19, 2006, 3:24 PM
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Re: [mel.5353] we are going to elope and have a reception...
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Dear Pot Luck,
In the past, I remember pot luck wedding receptions. But, this mainly was a church function. It really isn't proper to ask your guests to bring the party. So, it is best to ask a few friends if they would like to help you cater your reception. Perhaps you and your friends and a few family members could cook some nice dishes.
Plus, it is never appropriate to mention gifts in a wedding invitation. Although, I feel that you are very generous to want to skip the gifts in lieu of everyone sharing food.
we are going to elope and have a reception...
