In order for my husband and I to get our boys baptized, we were told that we needed to be married by the church. Since we are already married, i am assuming he meant we just need the church's blessing. Since we were married by the courts w/out family or friends the first ime, we wanted to have something small and simple with family there to witness the blessing. Would this fall under vow renewals as far as etiquette and all that good stuff.