This July will mark my mom & dad's 25th wedding anniversary. For years my mom has talked about renewing their vows, but it is something they put on the back burner for whatever reason.
I am just wondering if it is appropriate for me to get the ball rolling, and help take charge in terms of the planning and even financing of the event. I know that it is something special for the 2 of them to share, but I also know they would want to have friends and family over for a small get-together afterward. Seeing as they helped plan and pay for the beautiful wedding I had, I feel like that is the best anniversary gift I can give them. Thanks for any advice you can provide!
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While a very sweet gesture, plannig a vow renewal is a very private affair. If you're suggesting that you will do this as a surprise for your parents, I would advise against that idea. However, if your parents agree and you want to help plan and pay for the event, with their permission, I think it would be a nice idea. Just be sure both parents want this event before moving forward.
Please congratulate them on 25 years together and also for raising such a wondeful daughter. I'm sure they are very proud. Top Wedding Questions Forum Moderator - "Write your sorrows in the sand, your blessings in stone".
I completely agree on all accounts. And, I would suggest reading about vow renewal etiquette to avoid any embarrassment. But, the 25th is definitely something to celebrate. Rebecca Black, Etiquette Now
Daughter Planning Parents 25th Anniversary/Vow Renewal
