How to plan a vow renewal without looking like a wedding
It will be 15 years married next year and since we were married at the JP's in a quick ceromony because we both had to get back to our duty station, we were in the Army, only my two sisters were there with us. I would like to have a vow renewal next year on our 15 ann. When I have mentioned this his family makes me feel like I am being silly and selfish. All of my family will be coming up, they live 900 miles away, and my best friend from Alaska will be here also. Am I being silly for wanting something I never got. I know that this is not a "wedding" we are already married, but I feel that this will be special for us and our children. And I want to share it with our families. How do I make it special and not seem like a traditional wedding?
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Dear Honoring 15 years,
It isn't silly or selfish to want this. The vow renewal can be very special because it is a reaffirmation of your love and commitment. Because it isn't a wedding, you can create new elements. You are not stuck in wedding traditions or 'rules' we have set for ourselves.
Just stay away from traditional wedding elements and you are fine. Involve family, speak to your guests, and include them as well. Perhaps your children, you, and your husband can walk in from the sides of the room toward the alter, turn and thank the guests before reaffirming your vows. There are so many things you can do because you don't have to follow what is expected for the wedding.
How to plan a vow renewal without looking like a wedding
