I'm 25 and will be married 2 years on the 27th of this month. I absolutely love and adore my wife with all my heart, but have been doing an awful job of showing her. She's always dreamed of a romantic proposal, and it's been something I time and time again have totally botched. She still really wanted to marry me, and surprisingly, our wedding went off very well. Well, it's almost 2 years later now and we've hit some pretty rocky times along the way.
I've been having a really hard time reading the signals of what would make a big difference to my wife, and today, after essentially another disasterous attempt at a romantic outing, I've come to the conclusion that essentially a second, private, wedding is probably the best thing for us. She believes I haven't been taking our marriage seriously, and after many very unromantic proposals, that I obviously didn't put enough thought or feeling into or even WANT to propose to her in the first place. And just today, I feel like I've sapped all the possible romance out of this by yet again going through with something too fast in worry that otherwise I may be too late.
I guess all I'm really asking for is some suggestion on how I can still deliver a proposal to renew our vows, in a timely manner, without spoiling the surprise and romance of it.
Any advice is appreciated, and if I'm in the wrong place to be asking these sort of questions, I apologize. Thank you!
How to "propose" a renewal of vows
