My husband and I got married just before he went overseas, basically signed a slip of paper just the two of us, and told our families afterward. It has been six years now, and we will finally be exchanging written vows and rings that we never did before he left. This will not really be a ceremony, but a lavish dinner with cocktails and dancing in which we will speak in front of our guests.
Should we call our event a vow renewal or commitment ceremony in the invitations, or simply a reception? I would even be fine with calling this a soiree of some kind but people might miss the signifigance.
Also, how do we provide a nod to the formality of the event? It is loosely themed so letterpress stationary will not convey that for us; the invitations will be printed on tea-stained scrolls in colonial script and wax sealed. Do we include an insert, make a note on the invitation, or simply float it around by word of mouth?
Thank you.
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Re: Invitations for a themed "vow renewal"
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Dear Brenda,
This isn't a wedding, so the strict rules for wedding invitations are not an issue here. But, we still don't usually mention attire unless there is a dress code--like a country club. You could mention something about a cocktail party with dancing. That would mean cocktail attire is most appropriate. Your invitations alone should give them the idea of the formality though.
You would be inviting your guests to a vow renewal. Hopefully they will not be rolling their eyes since this is not a bench mark anniversary (20+). It seems that you are planning this as more of an anniversary party, so it should appear proper though.
Invitations for a themed vow renewal
