My husband and I got married April of 05... but since we lived in California because we are both active duty military and both of our families live in Texas we just did the JOP... well now we are both out and we are now in Texas... we are going to now go ahead and have our wedding for the family. Between since we had our JOP marriage and til the wedding October 07... we have accumulated a little monkey... hehehe. What kind of wedding can we have?
Since you are already married you won;t be having a "wedding". If you are religious you can have a blessing of your marriage in your place of worship or, a non-religious ceremony can be a vow renewal. Neither of these services are "weddings" but they can have many aspects of the wedding. You'll need to pick and choose the components that make sense.