My husband and I are planning to renew our vows because we got married via JOP due to military deployment and did not have an actual wedding. We were thinking of having a private destination ceremony when he comes home and having a huge reception when we return. Since we don't have any wedding favors to display at the reception. I am confused as to how to plan a formal, and unique reception with family and friends. I don't know what type of decorations to go for. I want it to be very elegant, formal and special since we are celebrating his return and our one year anniversary any help you can provide is greatly appreciated.
It sounds as if you have done your homework already and are creating a proper event that should be viewed very positively.
Since your wedding was just a year ago and your husband has been deployed this entire time, it would be appropriate for your reception to be a wedding reception. You didn't have one and this could be it. Of course, you would have to follow some common sense concerning what may seem a bit over the top for a wife vs. a bride, such as the garter and bouquet toss. But, most everything may be similar to a reception that is directly after the wedding.
If you want this to be 'your' wedding reception, you could use your wedding date on favors--if you choose to use them. Now if you choose to plan this as an anniversary party and your husband's home coming, it can still look formal with flowers and perhaps some sort of banner welcoming him home for your first anniversary. The cake could have writing that would echo this as well.
Please read more about vow renewal etiquette. Although, it seems as if your renewal won't mirror a wedding, but will reflect your love for one another--very proper and sweet.
I'm not the expert on planning, so perhaps someone else can help you with creating a formal event.
This can be as intimate or formal as you would like. Much like a wedding, you will take the same steps to plan it. You'll need to determine a budget, select a venue, decide how many guests will be invited, pick the reception food and beverages, etc.
Your reception can take place at a hotel ballroom, pavillion, etc. The type of decorations you will use will depend largely on your venue and the formality you choose for your reception. But if you want it to reflect a formal and elegant atmosphere, consider having white table linens with a hint of color added via silk/fresh floral petals, table overlays, etc. Chair covers with organza bows are always lovely. Candles are also great way to add sophistication and ambiance.
To make your reception unique, add a personal touch to the decoration, food, or favors that reflects your individuality and style. It can be something from a hobby you have or sport you play. Themes are also great ways to make your wedding unique. (i.e.: winter fantasy, beach, carribean, etc.)
Cheers! Rhonda Allen, Bridal Consultant New Beginnings Weddings
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