My husband and I are stationed overseas with the military and we are renewing our vows this May before he leaves for Iraq. We wanted to wait until all of our family members could be present, but we also wanted to do this for us as a way of reaffirming our love for one another before he goes away for a long time. My questions is this; I know it is not proper etiquette to send out announcements for a renewal. But it would seem strange to send family members an invitation when we know that they can not attend. Do I send an invitation, or do I just let them know in a short note or phone call? We are keeping this very small and I am so worried that someone will feel left out over something like an invitation or announcement. Thank You, Melissa
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Mar 12, 2006, 2:18 PM
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Re: [63HArmyWife] military overseas vow renewal
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Hello Melissa -
There is no reason to announce a vow renewal. You can certainly let people know about your plans through emails or phone calls. Please send invitations to everyone you want to attend your vow renewal ceremony, even if you do not think they can attend. Allow them to make the decision. There is no harm in this since a vow renewal is not a gift giving event so sending an invitation does not obligate the recipient to send a gift.
Best wishes for a safe return for your husband. Please thank him for helping to protect our country! Top Wedding Questions Forum Moderator - "Write your sorrows in the sand, your blessings in stone".
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Mar 12, 2006, 4:41 PM
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I completely agree, especially with the last comments.
This isn't the same as a wedding. So, your family really doesn't need to know about it formally. Rebecca Black, Etiquette Now
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