My husband and I were married civilly 3 years ago. He has recently agrred to have our marraige validated through my church (I am Catholic and he is not). We are planning to do this on our 5th wedding anniversary. I always wanted a nice reception with a dance. So this is my question: Is it improper to have a dance reception following the ceremony? I'd also like to know the proper etiquette on a photographer as well. We missed out on these special things when we were married.