My husband and I were married in 1997, in what I believe to be a civil ceremony. The minister that married us, in a small intimate ceremony at our home, only asked me the love, honor and obey question- with the response of "I do". This ceremony was planned in a span of 2 days, (not our original plan), and I guess we failed to communicate the type of ceremony we wanted. It really hurt my husband that we did it this way, but my parents found out that we were living together and would not have been a part of it, if we had not married or him move out. (If he had move out we would have broken-up, he said). This is my husband's second marriage and my first. His first time, he was married at the justice of the peace. We are at the point in our lives that we would like to have the ceremony that we have dreamed of, (with the attendants and groomsmen, reception, etc.). My first question is: what is appropriate and proper? When we got married he had his best friend stand up for him and I had my best cousin stand up for me. My second question is: We were married in February. Do we have to plan it for February or is it okay to wait until it is warm, like July or August? I am really confused, and in need of much help. Tasha
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Re: [qtq29] renewing vows at 10 years
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Tasha:
Congratulations on 10 years of marriage!
A vow renwal ceremony does not require you to have attendants and you can set the date for renewing your vows for whenever you like.
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renewing vows at 10 years
